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Deborah Abelha lit a candle
Saturday, November 16, 2024
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Still miss you everyday! Wish you were here!
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Thursday, April 22, 2021
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Thinking of you a lot today ---- well the last few months to be honest. I had a huge lecture on quality assurance and compliance earlier today. Wish you were here to talk about it with me.
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Tuesday, February 14, 2017
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Ashlee Spoor lit a candle
Wednesday, January 20, 2016
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"From my body, flowers shall grow and I am in them and that is eternity."
Edvard Munch; painter
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Ashlee Spoor posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2016
It's been a week since the passing of Auntie Dee. During this time I have been able to reflect upon her life and the memories I have with her. Unfortunately, sometimes words do not come as easily as we like or do they truly convey the truest feelings inside of us. Sometimes, feelings are too raw and pure to be contained in the confines of letters and a period and in this situation I believe this to ring true.
However, I can offer that Auntie Dee was a beautiful person inside and out. When she walked into a room, she lit it up. A special light that could only come from a person who lived with true passion, generosity and kindness that burned brighter than others. Auntie Dee was someone who would give you her last dollar and the shirt off her back. Personally, she motivated me to be a better person and practice selflessness. She believed in me and made me feel like I could do anything I put my mind to. I believed her and still do. I think she knew what it was like to work hard and see results, which she wanted for me.
I fondly remember her visits to our house on Christmas and other holidays. How she always wanted to have fun. It may have been in the form of sitting around the table talking about the day or going over old memories. Funny memories or sad ones both mixed into a beautiful time of laughter, smiles and fun. Somehow she always made you feel like what you had to say mattered. I remember driving with her for visits to grandma's house and all the special treats she would bring to make her visit just a little sweeter (No, really! She always brought the most beautiful cookies during the holidays).
It is all well and good to go over old memories and cherish them but there is still one aspect that must be attended to: grief. There are no words to express my grief. My heart is broken and stomach twisted in knots. I can't help but replay the happy memories I have with her, but somehow, they have become tinged with sadness because I know there aren't more to be made. Words can't express the loss I feel and how much more lonely the world seems to be. You truly know someone has made an impact on you when you feel this way.
It's amazing to see the loving, sentimental and kind comments about my Auntie Dee. Both at the wake and funeral. I now truly know how special she was to everyone, not just family. Her dedication, tenacity and caring nature can never be duplicated. She truly sparkled. She was my aunt, but also a friend, confidant and personal cheerleader. I will miss you Auntie Dee. I hope you have reunited with grandpa and your infectious laugh unfurls into all the corners of the universe.
Until we meet again.
With love,
Ashlee
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John Petrini Jr posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2016
Dear Ed,
Although I only knew Auntie Dee for a short time, I'll cherish it forever. I was privileged to have know her. She was a rare and beautiful person and she will surely be missed. I'm very sorry for your loss.
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James Webb posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2016
I was deeply saddened when I got news of Dee's passing and my wife and I extend our heartfelt sympathy and condolences to the family.
I had the opportunity to work closely with and get to know Dee at Catalent and always valued her friendship and honesty.
May God keep her close for eternity.
James
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Adam & Maureen Abelha posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2016
Today is a week since we lost our sister Dee. I wanted to share my thoughts as our family mourns our devastating loss.
The loss is heart-breaking as our sister is only 54. Too young to be gone she still had a thousand miles to walk. Too young to be gone she leaves so many dreams unfulfilled. Now the promise of a retirement never realized. It is so unfair. So unjust it overwhelms you in sadness and sorrow. Devastated by our Dad's loss Dee tried to comfort us as she was the one who had her religious faith. But her very words of comfort for us rang hollow for herself, as she struggled with Dad's passing. She gave us all a picture frame with Dad's photo in it for Christmas with instructions to hold it near and dear to our hearts. For her, the picture frame is no longer in her reach. She has gone one better. She is, I am certain, with Dad again, by his side, where no picture is needed and the gentle touch of our Dad's hand fills her with the joy of their reunion. Dad, protect her and hold her near until we are all together again.We love you and always will. You are forever in our hearts and minds...until we see you again. God Speed...
For her beloved husband, Ed, he is in our prayers and thoughts. He demonstrated great strength and dignity this past week. Our pain is compounded when we think of his sorrow. Please pray for Ed and our family, our sad journey through sorrow has just begun.
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Peggy Speight posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2016
Dear Abelha & Yapchanyk
When we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an angel in heaven that watches over us. May you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to watch over you now. Please accept my condolences on the passing of Dee, it was an honor to have known such a great person and I will truly miss her. May God embrace you in comfort during this difficult time. Dee was such a wonderful and giving person, she had the heart of a lion ... responsible, loyal, trustworthy, courageous leader, and treasured and protected friendship and family. Dee was full of wisdom and was always willing to provide advice, and share career and life lessons. She was a beautiful, and joyful person with a great sense of humor and had the best catchphrases. My heart is heavy, but I will always remember and cherish the friendship and grateful for having the opportunity to have known Dee.
Peggy Speight(Bristol-Myers Squibb)
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Ed Yapchanyk posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2016
Words cannot express how touched I was by the outpouring of love and affection for my dear wife and best friend, Dee.
I'd like to thank everyone who shared their kind words and gestures that helped make this very difficult time just a bit easier.
I always knew that Dee was a very special person and it was so comforting to hear the same sentiment echoed by the many others who offered their condolences.
Thank You and God Bless!
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Dipali Amin posted a condolence
Saturday, January 16, 2016
Ed,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Dee was very kind person with a heart of gold. My life has been changed since I met her. She will be alive in my heart, mind & thoughts forever. I am honored & blessed to have known Dee.
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Regina Reilly-Bielen posted a condolence
Saturday, January 16, 2016
Ed,
You are in my thoughts and prayers now and always. My life was changed forever once Dee entered it. She will never be forgotten.
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Joann Teixeira posted a condolence
Saturday, January 16, 2016
Ed And Family I'm So Sorry About The Loss Of Dee Dee ,I'm Lost For Words May She Rest In Peace ,She Will Be Sadly Missed Love You Joann And Family
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Sujata Mehta posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
Sincere condolences to the family on the sudden passing away of Dee. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. She was a wonderful person and a great colleague to work with at Bristol-Myers Squibb.
Sincere regards,
Sujata Mehta
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Kyle Costa posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
One of the biggest things that I will rememeber about Aunt Dee, was the fact that when she spoke to her, the word I was never in her vocabulary. Every time she talk to her nieces and nephews, she always spoke in third person saying, "Aunt Dee Dee is happy to see you." Because she lived so far away, seeing Aunt Dee was something to be excited about. I remember that every time you see her came a different hair style. Every time she saw you, she would smile, and cry when it was time to leave. Aunt Dee was something special. My heart is broken that I will never see the smile of her face. I could write a whole book about my favorite precious memories that I spent with Aunt Dee. I will never forger how special she was, and how she was one of the most important parts of my childhood.
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Irina Itkina and Vadim Fainberg lit a candle
Friday, January 15, 2016
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People are with us as long as they are remembered. Dee will be always with us.
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Rick and Stefanie Yapchanyk posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
Aunt Dee was one of the most caring, giving and loving people we have ever met. Her genuine warmth and kindness never failed to put a smile on our faces. She was a great aunt and a great friend. We will miss her so incredibly much.
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Antonio Ferreira posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
I was so saddened to hear the news of Dee's passing. I first met Dee when I hired her to work at Schering-Plough and our paths recently crossed at Bristol-Myers. She was a very genuine, thoughtful and delightful person to work with and talk to.
My deepest condolences to all her family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
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MA White lit a candle
Friday, January 15, 2016
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“Gone from sight, but never from our hearts”. She was my mentor, my confidante, my friend. Loved her so much. I am honored and blessed to have known “Lady Dee”. May your soul rest in peace my friend. You will be missed. Condolences to your family and husband.
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Bill Yosh posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
I’m saddened to hear about Dee’s passing. She was a wonderful manager and an even better person. Ed, Dee and your families will be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Teresa Strzelecki posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
My warm thought of sympathy are with you now, along with a prayer that God will be especially close to in the days ahead.
Teresa
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karen booker lit a candle
Friday, January 15, 2016
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So saddened by the news of Dee Dee's passing. So many wonderful memories from growing up. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. xoxo
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Denise Ventre posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
I was so very saddened to learn of the loss of Dee. I worked closely with Dee at Catalent over recent years and we travelled together a few times. She was a lovely lady to work and travel with, and I learnt a lot from her.
My thoughts and prayers go to Dee and all her family and friends.
Rest in peace Dee - it was an honour to know you!
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Mary Alice Norrison posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
Dear Ed and Yapchanyk family,
My deepest condolences for your loss. With only the few opportunities that I had to share time with Dee, she was the most geniune and kind person to be with. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I'm sorry I can't be with you.
With warm regards,
Mary Alice Norrison
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Suzanne Nelson posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Dee. I work with her at BMS but am at the Seattle, Washington site and only met her once. She spoke to me for quite some time and had such a passion for her work, it was inspiring to me. My condolences to all of you, she will be missed.
I recently lost my mom and her best friend gave me this Eskimo quote and it has been lovely to think about and brings me a small solace:
“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy"
Suzanne Nelson
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Maria A Yague Navarro posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thoughts and prayers.
Maria Yague
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Chloe Sasson posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
My sincere condolences to Bobby, Rick, and all the family. The death of those we love is so difficult. My heart goes to all of you.
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Donna-Lee Abelha Spoor lit a candle
Friday, January 15, 2016
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For my beloved sister, best friend and a beautiful soul. I will love you to eternity
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Bob and Julie Mazzarese posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
To Ed and the entire Abelha Family:
Our Sincere Condolences to all of you at this very difficult time. Dee was a terrific person who always made me laugh. She was one of the kindest people I have ever met, and Julie and I will miss her dearly.
With Love,
The Mazzarese Family
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Dorena Abelha Costa lit a candle
Friday, January 15, 2016
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A candle for my sis
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Dorena Abelha Costa posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
My Beloved Sister Dee Dee is gone. My heart is forever broken. Your kindness and love for me is what I will cherish. Even though you moved far away we still kept in touch. You opened your heart and home to me, Dana, Madison & Kyle for many years. We looked forward to our 4th of July vacations. When others took trips to far away places I just wanted to go to NJ to be with my sister. I am so saddened by your lost and there are moments that I feel I cannot go on. Many times we would just think of each other and we would call one another because we had that connection to each other. I hope that I can feel that same connection to you even though you passed on. My deepest hope is that Dad is there with you in heaven. I hope that you have found some comfort with the recent passing of Dad that now you are together again. I miss my big sister and will look for you in the beautiful sunsets, clouds and rainbows. My thoughts are also with Ed who has become part of our family. He has lost so much. His beloved wife, best friend and companion. I offer him my love and support to continue on life's journey until you and him meet again.
I love you and miss you Dee.
Forever Your Little Sister,
Dorena
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Tim Kilroy posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2016
My deepest and sincerest condolences at this difficult time. Dee was a truly remarkable and friendly warm person.
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Peter Lorenco and Family lit a candle
Friday, January 15, 2016
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Joanna Yapchanyk lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Rest in peace Aunt Dee. You will be so greatly missed.
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Bobby Yapchanyk posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
I will never forget your incredible kindness, generosity, selflessness, sincerity, humor, the list goes on... You were an incredibly special person, and I will always cherish having an aunt like you to look up to.
Rest peacefully, Aunt Dee. There are truly no words to describe how much you will be missed.
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Bobby Yapchanyk lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Tom and Jenn Andrews posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
RIP Aunt Dee...you will be missed. Our Deepest Condolences to you Uncle Ed.
"If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I’d walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again".
—Unknown
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Tom and Jenn Andrews lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Rest in Peace Aunt Dee...we will miss you.
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Deborah Abelha posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Deborah Abelha lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Into Paradise.....May the Angels....Lead You
My heart is broken forever. People ask me what they can do....I have no words...they tell me that eventually the pieces of my broken heart will mend...but for me there will always be a missing piece....my world is changed forever....and I will never be the same without you...but I take solace that you are with dad....and that I have a an amazing, loving, giving guardian angel...I love you Dee and miss you so much...Love your sister Deb
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Syed Munem posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
I am very lucky to have had the opportunity to know Dee. She hired me at Catalent and was a great person to work for and was always available to talk about anything from work to our personal life. She was an excellent leader and a good friend.
I would like to send my condolences to Dee's Family and Friends.
Sincerely,
Syed
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Ralph Lindblad posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
While our paths crossed infrequently, Dee could always be considered a friend and was always available for a call to chat about work / life situations and next steps in a career. Not only was I fortunate to know and work with Dee, but my wife was honored to share a dinner with her and feels the same pain that we all do....we lost an incredibly special person.
As Dee moved on from our company, she still took several opportunities to drop a note just to see how I was doing. That is the sign of a very special lady.
Thank You, Dee, for sharing a little of your time with me!!!! It has certainly been MY honor!!!
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Ernie Hillier posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
Dear Ed,
I'm so sorry to hear about your incredible loss of Dee. Its been a long time and the one thing that stands out about Dee was her smile. Heaven is smiling brighter with Dee in heaven.
My thoughts and condolences with you and the family.
Ernie
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Stefanie Yapchanyk lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Linda Johnson lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Joan L. Martyn lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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I was deeply shocked and saddened to hear of Dee's passing. Although it has bee a while since we worked together, she will be sincerely missed. Dee was one of the most wonderful people to know and work with. Sending deepest sympathy and condolences to Ed and her family.
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Sam Robinson lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Sam Robinson posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
Sending my Sincerest Condolences to Dee's family and friends! She was a lovely woman that I am grateful I had the opportunity to know. May you rest peacefully in Heaven.
Love,
Sam
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Kym marie Mulroy lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Barbara Yapchanyk posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Barbara Yapchanyk posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Barbara Yapchanyk lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Peter Turner (BMS Ireland) posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
Dee was such a lovely sincere kind person, and I was privileged to have known her for such a short time.
She will be a huge loss to her husband, family, friends & colleagues.
May she rest in peace.
Peter (BMS Ireland)
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Donna Foti posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
Dear Ed and the Abelha family,
I am deeply saddened by the news of Dee's passing. We were very close and worked together for many years. She hired me into the corporate position at Catlaent and we traveled together for work. I will always remember her kindness and support.
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Donna Foti
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Barbara Yapchanyk posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
There aren't any words that could possibly express what an incredible loss we feel. Dee was an exceptionally special person, who was a huge presence in our lives. She was one of the most loving, generous, and caring people we all had the blessing of having as part of our lives. She will be so sorely missed and I will carry her and all the wonderful memories my family and friends have made with her forever. She was more like a sister to me than a sister-in-law and I will miss all our quiet talks together as well as our silly times. She will be with Ellen and I in spirit in all our escapades. I pray that God has her in his arms now and that her dad has her by the hand. Ed, our deepest sympathies are with you and we are here for you always. We love you as we loved her.
Rest in peace my sweet Dee.
Barbara
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Ellen Norrison posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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Ellen Norrison posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
Dee. You were quite a presence in our lives. Your Beautiful smile and your kindness will be so dearly missed. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers each day. May you Rest in Peace my Dear Friend and Sister.
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Peter Malone posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
I worked for Dee at BMS for the last year. I can tell you on behalf of our group that Dee was a great person and a great boss and she will be sorely missed. My sincere condolences to you.
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Diane Petitti, BMS lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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May knowing that Dee is in the hearts and thoughts of others help you and yours through this time of sorrow.
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Guy Verrastro posted a condolence
Thursday, January 14, 2016
So sorry to have heard the news of Dee's passing! While I haven't seen Dee in a long time, I have nothing but fond memories of the many long conversations we had during her years at Waters. She was passionate in her pursuit of life and business. My deepest condolences to Ed and Dee's family.
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Kelly Randis lit a candle
Thursday, January 14, 2016
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My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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