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Big sister posted a condolence
Thursday, January 27, 2022
I love you and miss you. just why? Why ? Why? Why?
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Mom lit a candle
Friday, December 3, 2021
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Nothing is the same
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, September 18, 2021
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One year since…
Always on my mind.
I love you.
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Mom posted a condolence
Saturday, September 18, 2021
You are forever in my heart.
Love you Tommy. “Love you too Mom” What I would give to hear that one more time
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Mom posted a condolence
Saturday, September 18, 2021
You are forever in my heart.
Love you Tommy. “Love you too Mom” What I would give to hear that one more time
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, July 31, 2021
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Love you so much.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Monday, July 5, 2021
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Hey Tom…
Sorry I haven’t written here in a while. I just wanted to thank you for watching over Maureen last Tuesday….and thank you for making sure your newest nephew came out perfectly!!!! Little Thomas Carter will carry your name loud and proud. We all love you so much, and wish you were here to see him. I know you’ll be watching over him. Miss you, Tommy.
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Edward posted a condolence
Thursday, June 17, 2021
Maureen and I came to visit you today. The headstone looks beautiful but I wish it didn’t need to exist at all.
I love you and miss you so much.
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Edward posted a condolence
Thursday, June 17, 2021
Maureen and I stopped by today to see you—the headstone looked beautiful but I just wish that it didn’t need to exist at all.
I love you so much.
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Mom uploaded photo(s)
Friday, June 4, 2021
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It’s been a while but that doesn’t mean Im not missing you. It hurts so bad.
Love you Tommy Boy
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 1, 2021
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Love you.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Friday, May 7, 2021
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I love you so much, buddy.
I miss you every minute of every day.
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Mom posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 5, 2021
It’s been a while since I posted anything. It makes me cry to read the posts from your siblings.
You know I think about you all day. Every day.
My life is just not the same.
I love you Tommy
Please continue to watch over us especially Dad. He is hurting so bad
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Edward posted a condolence
Saturday, April 24, 2021
I Love You.
I Miss You.
I’d give anything to get you back.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, April 19, 2021
I’m sorry you got lost along the way. I always was in your corner. Xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, April 18, 2021
How am I still breathing? How is my heart still beating? I’m sorry. You tried. I won’t judge as I didn’t know your pain.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, April 17, 2021
Sleep peaceful my little brother. You were part of my whole life. Now I’m incomplete. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, April 15, 2021
I miss you so bad. Will I ever stop crying? Are you ok? I hope the pain is gone. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, April 12, 2021
I’m screaming inside. I need to just let it out. God help me. I miss you so bad. One day closer xxoo
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, April 10, 2021
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I’m so sorry for not knowing or having you know you could of reached out. I have so many regrets. You have no idea how lost I am. I smile I laugh but it’s just to get thru the day. Every minute of every day my body aches. I pray it was an awful dream but I know it’s not. You will live in me forever. If I didn’t have kids I probably would be with you that’s how bad I ache. xxoo
One day closer. I hope you and DMX are hanging out and having a good time. Poor poppy is probably shaking his head. Lol
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 6, 2021
Sorry I haven’t talked to you. When I talk to you I slip in a depression because it becomes real. I love you and I’m sorry. I don’t want to die but I’m not afraid to see you and to have are bond link again would be me reliving all over. One day closer.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 4, 2021
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Happy Easter, Tommy.
I love you and miss you so much...everyday.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, April 3, 2021
Wont be the same tomorrow. Happy heavenly Easter. I’m sorry. One day closer. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, April 1, 2021
Hi Tom. I wish everyday I’d wake up. I look at your pictures and I say NO this did not happen and I think it’s a bad thought in my head. I then realize it is in fact reality and it hits me right in the gut. I thought my prayers were keeping you safe maybe I didn’t beg enough. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, March 29, 2021
I miss you. If I got one wish I’d wish you back but would you want to be back? Did you feel like you weren’t living anyway? I’m sorry. Why the devil picked you I’ll never know. You were the most caring person. We lost you. You lost you. I wish you would of called. I thought I was going to see you that Sunday for PJ confirmation. I thought you were good. I’ll never forgive myself. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, March 28, 2021
Sorry Tom. I missed yesterday. I’m sure you saw it was a busy weekend. Saw had 4 games to finish off the season. He played great especially today. Went 3 losses 1 win. Sean scored the last 2 games with many assists and a few bad words among them (oh well) I wish you would have been able to be here in person. I know you weren’t a huge hockey fan but his games are pretty intense. Well I’ll talk tomorrow. I miss you and I’m sorry. All that matters now is whenever my time is up I know I’m one day closer.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 28, 2021
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Love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, March 26, 2021
Tournament tomorrow for sean. Keep him safe and fast. Miss you. I’ll see you soon. I love you. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, March 25, 2021
Goodnight my brother. Miss you so bad. I love you. I’m sorry. One day closer. Xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Hey Tom. Easter is coming not going to be the same. You loved piñata time. I hope Dean comes. I’m sure he’s having a hard time. I wish I could see you more but I’ll be there soon. Miss you every second of every day. I’m sorry. One day closer.
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Edward posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Just thinking of you while I’m at work...but then again, you haven’t left my mind since you left this world.
I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
Hi Tom. I miss you. I hope you are all together up there waiting on the rest of us. I’m so sorry you didn’t deserve this. You fought hard and I’m sorry you were burdened with that struggle. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
I had a lapse in memory today and forgot that you were gone. I can’t get past this. WHY??? WHY??? I’ll get my answers one day. I love you. You were my little side kick. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, March 20, 2021
Sorry I missed last night. I meant to check in but I got home late and I fell asleep but I should really have no excuse. I miss you terribly we all do. If I could ask you questions right now it may help my pain. I guess I’ll get that chance when we meet again. Wait at the doors for me. On day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, March 18, 2021
Hi Tom. I’m hoping now with the weather getting better I can come visit. To think I was worried about me dying and how you would handle it. I can’t handle it. It’s not normal it’s not real I’ll never allow myself to accept it. I’m so sorry. I thought I was helping. I made a mistake. One day closer xx
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 17, 2021
Happy St.Patrick’s Day! I hope you sat with poppy and had a feast. Oh man Tom never could I have imagined this. I prayed for you every night I never asked for anything but then then to keep you safe. Ask him he’ll tell you ask poppy too I asked them every night guess they didn’t listen. xx one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 16, 2021
Goodnight. I love you. I’m very sorry. One day closer
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Allison posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, March 15, 2021
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Sleep peacefully baby Tommy. My life has forever been changed. One day we will be together and I hold onto that with bated breath. I’m so sorry. I wish you would have called me. I was looking forward to seeing you that Sunday for PJ confirmation. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, March 14, 2021
Heard a song you use to like I cried in BWW. I’m not strong enough to deal with this. The weather is warming up I will come see you. I’ll bring something to make it nice for you. Why did this happen?? I’ll never understand it. I love you. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, March 13, 2021
Happy National sibling day. Forever my brother. Ps you were always my favorite (ssh) xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, March 12, 2021
Hi Tom. I hope you’re sleeping peacefully. I had a dream the other night you were in it that’s all I remember. I miss you so bad every inch of my body aches. Why us? Why you? One day closer
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Allison posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, March 11, 2021
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, March 11, 2021
I’m extremely exhausted today I think I can honestly say it’s depression. I have so many questions. So much I need to tell you. We are all hurting so bad. I wish there was a way to have shown you. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 10, 2021
Happy Birthday. How do I continue to breathe thru this pain that I just have learned to live with. I find myself to be so angry. I don’t want to be. You were worth so much more then you ever believed you were. Hope Poppy made you a birthday egg sandwich and I hope grandma made you her special fluffy white cake. One day closer
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, March 10, 2021
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Happy Birthday Tommy!
I miss you everyday.
Love you. 4ever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 9, 2021
Hey Tommy it’s been about a week not sure what happened. I’m sorry. I’ve had major anxiety it says my internet may be compromised from opening the link but I don’t care. Tomorrow is your birthday and we will all be together to celebrate you. I love you. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 2, 2021
I miss you that will stand everyday for the rest of my life. God made a mistake on this one. He did not need to take you. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, March 1, 2021
Will it ever get better? Will I ever feel normal? Will I ever accept it? It’s so bad. Why? God why??
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, February 28, 2021
Broken. That’s all I can say. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, February 27, 2021
Hey Tom. Today was tough for me. I’m not sure why some days are so hard for me I can’t even focus. I just want to go into a field and scream. I never felt such pain. I thought nothing could feel worse then poppy but I guess my mind never thought I’d lose my brother so soon in life. I love you thru every being in me. xxoo one day closer
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, February 27, 2021
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Just thinking of you. I know you’re happy, at peace, and watching over us all. Keep protecting Maureen, and keep your nephew safe and strong.
I love you, baby brother.
4ever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, February 26, 2021
Hi Tom. Please let me know somehow you’re ok. I need to know you are at peace. My mind goes like a Rolodex fast in back and forth motion I jump back to carrying you as a baby to you coming with me for a short ride to pick up lex remember how I ruined the tooth fairy for her. We picked her up from a school function and you came with me and I asked you if you had a few dollars to put under her pillow cause she lost a tooth. For some reason I forgot she was in the back seat and we just laughed. So many memories. Wish there were years more. I’m sorry it got you. I thought I would be the first to go out of the 4 of us I wish I wasn’t wrong. all I know each day that passes I’m that much closer till I can see you again. I hold on to that. Love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, February 25, 2021
Hi Tom just an FYI sean wants to borrow your song that I would play for you. “I’m the man” he’s developed your fire in the last week I’ve seen a new kid I believe you are in his heart. Thank you. Keep his fire burning. We miss you terribly and not a day goes by I don’t talk about you to who ever will listen. xxoo one day closer
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Mom posted a condolence
Thursday, February 25, 2021
Everyone talks about “the new normal”. My new normal sucks. I miss you more and more each day. The crying starts at a glimpse of your face’a song on the radio,cooking the food that you loved. You are every where.
I love you Tommy
“I love you too Mom”
Give anything to hear that one more time.
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 24, 2021
The only thing that brings me comfort is knowing you are at peace. No worries no struggles. I would love to have you back but for selfish reasons. I can’t wait to meet the baby that is very special because god gave us that baby in place. They say when god gives a life he takes one. I just wish it wasn’t you. xxoo one day closer. Ps I look for you Tom in everything I want to see you please give me something.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 23, 2021
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Missing you forever.
Love you. Forever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2021
Sorry Tom I missed yesterday. Did you see that shot by Sean I think you are helping him out. He plays hard he knows you’re watching. That is so far our toughest team we see them again this Saturday we had a loss a tie now just need the win. You’ll be there. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, February 21, 2021
Wish this never happened I wish I knew more I wish I could of helped I wish I could of saved you. I wish you could of saved yourself you were worth more then you ever believed you were. I wish you were here. Love you. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, February 19, 2021
Talking to a Eddie today and he showed an old text between you and him. I have to say you have the most kind caring heart always was being positive for everyone. I wish you saw in yourself the good you saw in others. You were more then you know. You were smart funny good looking you had it all. You could sell ice to an Eskimo. I guess we are always hardest on ourselves. I hope you know I was always rooting for you. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, February 18, 2021
5 months. I have no words. I try to think if I did more if maybe lexi knew and she talked to you and then I think you had the one thing one person looking at you one person that you were his everything, Dean. I look back at pictures and you were such a great brother such a great uncle. I know you fought demons daily I can’t imagine the struggle and for that I’m so sorry. I love you.
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Mom posted a condolence
Thursday, February 18, 2021
Crying off and on all day. Then realized it’s been 5 months since my heart broke. It hurts so bad.
Love you always Tommy Boy
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 17, 2021
Very sad today. I’m not mad at you you were not in control. Crazy to me how something can take one over. I’ll get answers one day. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 16, 2021
It’s Tuesday. I’m heading down tomorrow don’t think I’ll make it over cause if all the snow. I’m sorry. Sorry if I wasn’t there enough I thought you were ok. I wish I knew more I would of helped. I’m so sorry. xxoo one day closer #forever4 #fiveplusanangel
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, February 15, 2021
What hurts the most is I never got to say goodbye. I prayed for you every day and assumed god and poppy would answer them and help you and please to never let you lose the battle. xxoo one day closer
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Mom lit a candle
Monday, February 15, 2021
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Miss you so much. Love you Tommy Boy
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, February 14, 2021
Miss you Tom. That’s all I have to say. Still hits me hard. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, February 13, 2021
Hey Tom. Game today we can’t go in. Keep him safe. Be in his ear. Skate hard and just shoot! I know you’re watching. He’s pretty good. Miss you. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, February 12, 2021
Hi Tommy. I’m hoping I can get there next week if it ever stops snowing but they say the flakes are kisses from heaven so I’ll take it. I miss you terribly. Keep your eye on us especially Maureen right now she’s carrying very precious cargo. xxoo one day closer #forever4 #fiveplusanangel
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, February 11, 2021
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Hey, brother.
Stopped by to visit today. I tried my best to dig out your crate and picture with my bare hands.
Please continue to watch over all of us. We all miss you.
Love you so much.
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, February 11, 2021
I’m so sorry I missed yesterday to talk to you. Sean went sledding at his friends house it was a long day. I talked about you yesterday though with my friend. Miss you. One day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 9, 2021
In my mind I hugged you today very tight. I wish I could. I miss you. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, February 8, 2021
Hey Tom. Sorry I haven’t been to see you but between virtual and this darn weather it’s making it impossible. Sean is off next week hoping I can make a trip. One day closer #forever4 #fiveplusanangel #Tommy
Oh PS Dean hates sean lol
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Edward posted a condolence
Monday, February 8, 2021
I see Allie spilled the beans before I could, but I know you were there yesterday watching the game and then at halftime when we let everyone know what our son’s name is going to be: THOMAS. There was never really any question as soon as we found out we were having a baby, if it was a boy...Tommy was the only choice. We love you so much, and we can’t wait until the “new” Baby Tommy graces us with his presence while the “original” baby (Uncle) Tommy watches from above.
We miss you.
We love you.
4ever.
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, February 7, 2021
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My heart is full....your name will always live on. I miss you. One day closer #fiveplusanangel
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Mom posted a condolence
Sunday, February 7, 2021
This year super bowl will not be the same. I always had a lot of fun with you. You would always pull for your family whose numbers had a chance of winning ( except when the Steelers were playing lol).
Whenever I think of you I tear up. It’s such a pain that I can’t explain. I love you Tommy Boy.
Please continue to watch over us and I believe you’ll be sitting right next to me later.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, February 6, 2021
Hey Tom. Tomorrow is one of your favorite days. Super Bowl. You going to watch with poppy I’m sure. We are all in some pretty nice pools hopefully one of us can win. Sean has another game tomorrow supposed to be our toughest opponent. Let sean shine skate with him keep him safe strong and fast. I love you. xxoo one day closer forever4 fiveplusanangel
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, February 4, 2021
My side kick. You went with me anywhere I could take you. You came with me to the parks with Chris and lex. You would sleep over. The 4 of us in a full size bed. We watched deliverance to get us over the scary movie we watched. I cut your hair. I came to all your games (football) so many memories I hold them tight. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 3, 2021
Hello Tom. I been talking about you a lot it helps with my sadness. I speak of you in the present not the past. I hug you every night and think such a good person gone. I could think of so many people that deserve what you got. I’ll never recover. I miss you terribly and just hope you are at peace. I’ll see you again. One day closer. #fiveplusanangel #forever4
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 2, 2021
Thank god something get me out of that rink tonight if I would like f heard him scream I would have lost it. Thanks for getting him back up. He’s a tough kid. I miss you. Sean says he wishes you would of seen him play I tell him he sees you every time now. xxoo one day closer #fiveplusanangel #forever4
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Mom posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, February 2, 2021
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Every morning I wake up and the the pain starts all over again. I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, February 1, 2021
I think I’d deal better if I had answers. The not knowing is what I struggle with. xxoo one day closer #fiveplusanangel
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, January 31, 2021
Just here for my daily and to say I miss you. One day closer #myforeverangel #fiveplusanangel
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, January 30, 2021
Sorry it’s late. Very busy today. I guess that’s a good thing means things are getting back to normal. I wish I could go back 4 1/2 months I’d take this lockdown all over to make sure your path took a different turn. Sorry Tom I’m so sorry. One day closer #fiveplusanangel
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, January 29, 2021
Hi Tom. Unbearable that’s the only way I can describe it. I walk around and I tell myself nah it’s not true and I want to call you but I know you won’t answer. I never wished this on you I wished and prayed you’d get better. Life is hard Tom believe me you know I know its hard. You just had to keep pushing forward. You would of got there. Love you. One day closer #fiveplusanangel
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, January 28, 2021
Hi Tom. I miss you terribly I often think how much fun we had and where the break was. I wonder where you started to struggle. I wish i had answers. Hardest thing for me is why didn’t you reach out. You didn’t need to be ashamed I would of done what you needed if you needed help. You just needed to ask. Love you. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 27, 2021
Hey Tom. Sean and I are in a hotel because you know the bathroom well guess what is in our room a ladybug I read that those are a sign of a loved one from heaven. I hope so. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 26, 2021
Hi Tom sorry I’m late tonight. I don’t think Maddie is doing good. Not sure how much time she has. Every night I hug your blanket well my blanket with you on it. Is it weird that I tell myself you’re not really gone. Xxoo one day closer
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Mom posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 26, 2021
Yesterday was my birthday but it wasn’t happy, wasn’t the same. Something was missing..........YOU!
I love you Tommy
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, January 25, 2021
I keep reading some convos we had thru messenger. Sometimes you would talk others I would text and I never would hear back. I saw some of the inspirational quotes I would send but you never acknowledge them. Maybe it was to hard for you. I don’t know what went on in your head but I can’t imagine it was peaceful. I’m sorry you struggled. Goodnight I’ll talk to you tomorrow. Ps mom got married today lol one day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, January 24, 2021
Heard our song at the gym today. I’ve been trying to be consistent with going but this bathroom is getting in the way. Hoping by next Sunday I’m able to get serious about it. I hope you’re warm I hope you’re with Poppy Torrie and grandma and grandpa and Jayda. Miss you to the moon and back. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, January 23, 2021
Hey Tom. Was supposed to have a new shower today they left us with nothing. They brought the wrong part. No shower till Monday. Story of my life. Miss you terribly. xxoo one day closer
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Friday, January 22, 2021
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Little things give me peace that you walk with me. I miss you. One day closer
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Edward posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2021
You’re getting another nephew, Unk!!
Please keep watching over all of us; and keep helping Maureen throughout her pregnancy.
We all love you and miss you.
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Mom posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2021
I cried last night when we found out Eddie and Maureen were having a boy.
I cried last night because I wish you were here
Please continue to watch over everyone
I love you Tommy
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 21, 2021
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Monday, January 18, 2021
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Miss you everyday, Tommy.
I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, January 18, 2021
I guess today means I’ve moved 4 months closer to you. I’m not sure when my last day will be but I know I welcome it with open arms. Love you. I’m completely broken. My smile is just makeup I’m sad all day.
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Mom Pn2 posted a condolence
Monday, January 18, 2021
4 months ago today my life changed forever. Not sure how me and Dad keep going. It’s an emptiness I can’t explain.
I love you Tommy.
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2021
Hey Tom. Lexi is 25 today. I know she would of heard from you right away I’m sure she’s going to miss that. I know she has saved text from you. As do I. Just was going thru my messenger last night and reading out convo’s. Miss you. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, January 16, 2021
Another day passing and nothing feels right. xxoo I will not accept it my heart will not allow it I keep telling myself you are just somewhere else.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, January 15, 2021
Hey Tom. Can you see Jax? Thanks for the help there. I think the dog brought her some happiness. I can’t imagine you wanted to leave all of us. I hope not. Love you Tom. Never a day will pass that I do not keep your name alive. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 13, 2021
Hey Tom Pan. Almost 4 months still won’t accept it in my heart. I hope at least your pain is gone. I believed in you. One day closer
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, January 12, 2021
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We always had a special bond. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, January 11, 2021
Miss you. I just wish I knew of you heard me. I wish I could talk with you. I’m not afraid. One day closer xxoo
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Sunday, January 10, 2021
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Don’t sweat it.
There’s always next year.
Please don’t scream too loud up there. Ask Pop to make you an egg sandwich on Italian bread. That’ll calm you down.
I miss you.
I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, January 10, 2021
Hi Tom. Thus gave is a nightmare. You sleeping or outraged? Maybe you’re watching with Poppy. The puppy is doing better. Thank you. You answered that one. Miss you everyday. I wish we could go back to the days we watched The hills have eyes and then Deliverance because we were so scarred. Lol then we all slept in my bed like Willy Wonka. ( I just heard your chuckle in my head) man what I’d give to hear that. We will be together again. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, January 9, 2021
Hi Tom. Busy day today. We saw mom and dad Dean was supposed to come but he said next time he will. Sean had a mini game 3 on 3 not getting much games these days so we will take what we can get. I wish you could of seen him play I know hockey isn’t your top sport but he really uses his size to his advantage he gets better and better. Well I guess you can see them all now. I miss you wish I could of saved you. I know you fought battles well beyond your control for that I’m sorry. Love you xx
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, January 8, 2021
Why??? God tell me why?? Why him? We were behind him. I prayed for him every night why didn’t you listen???
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, January 8, 2021
Please Tom keep that dog safe. xxoo miss you every day
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Friday, January 8, 2021
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I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 6, 2021
Tom- this world has gone nuts. Miss you! xxoo
One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 5, 2021
Just my daily acknowledgment that you will always remain alive with me. xxoo regret and denial consume me. One day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, January 4, 2021
Hello. Will I ever accept this? My mind will not allow me too. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, January 3, 2021
You could of trusted me I thought you knew I always had your back. I wish I knew I thought you were good. One day closer. Xxoo give me something to know it’s all going to be ok.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, January 2, 2021
Well they got a dog. Wish you were here to meet him. I wish you were here period. I actually feel sick. Miss you tons. xxoo
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Mom posted a condolence
Saturday, January 2, 2021
How can I start a new year with you not here. It’s a new year and my heart is still and forever broken
Love you Tommy
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Edward posted a condolence
Friday, January 1, 2021
Happy New Year, Tommy.
I have a voicemail saved of you wishing me a happy new year going into 2019. I legit must’ve listened to it like 20 times. I wish I could’ve heard an updated version from you last night. I wish you were here with us in person, but I know you’re definitely watching over us, helping us, showing us the way.
You’re always gonna be in my heart, and you’ll always be a part of me. I will never let your name be forgotten, and neither will the rest of us.
Rest easy, brother.
I love you.
4ever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, January 1, 2021
It’s January 1 yeah so what?? I’d take 2020 all over again if it meant to have you back. I cried my eyes out all night yesterday to the point I couldn’t breathe. God it hurts so bad. I miss you Tom and I’m one day closer. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, December 31, 2020
It’s New Years and I’ve been crying all day. It means nothing. I can’t handle it I try but I’m in such pain. I would of done anything for you. I’m sorry Tom it’s not fair. xxoo one day closer
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Mom posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, December 31, 2020
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Sitting here crying. Which is my new normal. Still feel it’s a horrible nightmare. How can this be??????
Love you Tommy. “Love you too Mom”. Would give everything to hear that 1 more time
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 30, 2020
Hi Tom. I smile to hide what I feel I’m broken sometimes I want to go to be with you but know that’s me being selfish. How could god take someone so deserving to live. xxoo one day closer
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 29, 2020
Hi my brother. I don’t know if it’s cause of Christmas and the new year coming but I feel completely numb again. I feel so sad I feel angry I feel a whole bunch of things all at once. I miss you and would give anything to go back. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, December 28, 2020
This is the worst year ever. I wonder if none of this bullshit happened would you be gone. Well I miss you and can’t wait till we can meet again. Please help us guide us and keep us safe. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, December 27, 2020
Hello Tom panty. Hope you’re looking down on us actually I hope you sit right beside me. Sometimes I sit and I think myself into hearing your voice. I keep your blanket on my pillow. How’s poppy? Did he give you some shit when you got there? Did you meet grandma? She was the best. You or Eddie didn’t get to have time with her but I guess you have it now. I hope you can help lex get that dog George she really wants him and it may bring her some light she is broken from the loss of you. Chris also needs to get that new apartment so I am praying you can help us out. Did you hear baby Prima or Primo coming June. God took you but filled in with a new Valentino. I hope he follows what mom did and names his first after dad so Thomas Edward really lives on (if it’s a boy of course) although Tommie is cute for a girl. Well I miss you and I’m sorry I wish you would of reached out to me. I would of done whatever you needed. Talk to you tomorrow. I don’t know when my time is going to end all I know is I’m always one day closer.
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Saturday, December 26, 2020
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Now that we let everyone know, please continue to watch over all of us, especially Maureen. You have another niece or nephew coming next summer, and you can believe I will let them know all about you: how great a guy you are, how talented you were in so many things, and most importantly—how much their Uncle Tommy loved (and will always love) his family.
Love you, Tommy.
I miss you very much.
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, December 26, 2020
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All new Steelers fans in the house. I knew sean would be impacted by your passing because it’s his first loss of someone close to him I never thought it would affect him as much as it is. I think I scarred him terribly the ride down I just screamed the whole way.
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Edward posted a condolence
Friday, December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas Tommy...
You were and will always be so truly missed.
I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, December 25, 2020
I talked to Dean today boy does he love you. I know you would of never willingly left him I know your inner pain was so bad you just wanted it to go away but I do not believe you wanted to. xxoo one day closer one Christmas down.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas! I wish I could rewind the time. I would make sure it was different. I’m sorry. I was in your corner the whole time. No judgement only love. Nobody’s perfect and you tried so hard I know you did. It was me that didn’t and for that i will never forgive myself. Ever. My days just go and I’m not afraid. One day closer. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
Missed you tonight. We will celebrate again all together. My biggest wish is that you are at peace and your mind and body do not hurt. I know you brought this wind because you are letting us know you’re with us. I love you. xxoo #onedaycloser
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Four young boys died last night. The pain their family will feel is the worst pain anyone can imagine I know cause I feel it. Welcome them they will be afraid and help their families. xxoo
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
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Is that your way of telling me you are with me? I hope so. xxoo #onedaycloser
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Mom posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
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I love you Tommy. “I love you too Mom”. What I would do to hear it 1 more time.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
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1:10am on the couch and I’m crying.
I can’t stop thinking about you.
This isn’t right.
Life just ain’t fair sometimes.
I love you.
4ever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
I have the house to myself well Maddie is here. Ant took sean to practice. I’m trying to wrap presents and I cry because the thought of you not being there has me sick. But I’m the moment it’s so quiet I thought just of you and you talked back to me I heard your chimes. I know you were saying “it’s alright Al I love you” I actually felt it. And I loved you more then you will ever know. Well maybe you do know. xxoo #onedaycloser
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Mom uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
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NOTHING will ever be the same.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, December 21, 2020
I’m feeling extra sad these past few days. I wish I had a time capsule I’d go back and make sure things were different. #onedaycloser
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Monday, December 21, 2020
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Missing you really bad, especially now during this time of year. I love you, FOREVER.
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, December 20, 2020
My heart is broke. I miss you. #onedaycloser
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, December 19, 2020
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Miss you terribly. I never imagined myself visiting your grave. But here we are. #onedaycloser
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, December 18, 2020
3 months today. 3 months ago my life changed forever. I will never be the same. I will never feel the same for a piece of my heart went with you. xxoo #onedaycloser
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 16, 2020
I’m sorry. I don’t think I pushed enough I thought everything was good. I’ll never forgive myself.
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, December 16, 2020
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Missing my Santa-partner everyday...
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 16, 2020
Another day is passing by and I miss you why did we get punished why did we deserve this why did you deserve this. Xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 15, 2020
I just feel the need to scream but I hold it in. It comes out as tears. Why?? Just why? We are a good family you were trying we all were rooting for you. Can’t believe my worst fear the reasons I would be afraid to answer my phone early mornings when I saw mom calling became a reality. Broken. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, December 14, 2020
I miss you Tom if I had one wish it wouldn’t be for money it wouldn’t be for Chris to hear. I’d ask for you back and I would make it my life’s mission to get you ok. #onedaycloser
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, December 13, 2020
If you knew or could have seen how much we love you I wonder if it would of been different. I’ll never be whole again. #forever4 #onedaycloser
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Mom posted a condolence
Sunday, December 13, 2020
It’s so hard to try and stay strong. Dad and I are lost because we love and miss you so much. Our hearts are forever broken
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Edward posted a condolence
Saturday, December 12, 2020
Love you bro...
Karen and I were just talking about how much we love and miss you.
I’ll never forget you, Tommy.
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, December 12, 2020
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One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, December 11, 2020
I did not forget you. Sorry it’s late. One day closer. I miss you every minute of every day. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 9, 2020
Another day passes and it hurts to the core. I just want to scream but i hold it in. I wish I could of helped you. I would of done anything I can. xxoo #onedaycloser
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Edward posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, December 8, 2020
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Never beat ya once. You schooled me every time.
Miss you everyday.
Love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 8, 2020
Good morning. I miss you so much. My heart is actually broke I can feel it. xx #onedaycloser
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Mom posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, December 6, 2020
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I love you Tommy Boy.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, December 5, 2020
Hi Tom. I didn’t forget you I just had a busy day sean had his team party he had a great time. Keeping busy helps my head but when I sit down to unwind it hits. I’d give anything to bring you back. one day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, December 4, 2020
A lady bug in my house was that you. One day closer xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2020
It’s Thursday just another day. I Still try to process this. It’s not fair. I know you were trying so hard. I can’t believe you’re gone and I will NEVER accept it. What ever my time is here I know I’m one day closer. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2020
Just popping in to say hello. I know big game in now. I miss you very bad as does everyone else. We talk about you every day. Keep us safe. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 1, 2020
I will never accept this. I hurt so bad. xxoo one day closer
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 1, 2020
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December is here and Christmas just won’t be the same without you here with us.
I love you, Tommy.
4ever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, November 30, 2020
I wish you knew how much we all hurt. So you knew how much we all cared. Nobody wanted this not sure even you. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, November 29, 2020
I know I’ll never get my Christmas wish but if I could it would be to have you back.
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, November 26, 2020
I’m not thankful I’m so sorry. I have so many should of could of would of’s. The only thing that gives me some peace is you are not hurting suffering or struggling. I can’t imagine how hard you fought daily. Our minds are a strange thing. You were an amazing brother and dad. I’m one day closer and I’ll hear you say “hey Allie” and that chuckle. Xxoo
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Mom posted a condolence
Thursday, November 26, 2020
It’s tough trying to get thru today. Missing you terribly. But you are forever in our hearts. Love you always
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Edward posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
It’s not fair.
My baby brother should be here.
I love you always.
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Good morning. You have a big job so I’ll pop in and talk but I’m not going to bother you with my quick draw nonsense lol even though #10 came out every time. xxoo I’m another day closer.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, November 23, 2020
If I knew I would be brought back I would want to die for a few minutes just to see if you’re ok and to tell you we will be whole again one day. #partyofsix #forever4
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, November 22, 2020
Good morning. I miss you terribly at moments it hits me like a ton of bricks. If you were hurting so bad I hope you are now in some comfort. I’m selfish to say I’d rather you here but I don’t know how bad you’re suffered. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, November 21, 2020
For the “good” day I had yesterday boy it came with a vengeance today. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, November 20, 2020
Hi Tom. Sorry I’m so late I had a busy day sean got his cookies and I had to drive around and deliver them. I talked about you though. We saw the beams of light shining thru while sean and I were at Walmart right about the time I got the phone call on September 18th the worst day of my life.. I miss you terribly and I hope you come see me. Love you xxoo
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Mom posted a condolence
Friday, November 20, 2020
I’m having a real bad day today. Missing you terribly. Loving you always
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, November 19, 2020
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Edward posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 18, 2020
I’m never gonna get over this. I was supposed to have my brother for the rest of my life.
But you’ll always be with me.
Forever.
I love you, Tommy.
Forever.
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 18, 2020
I have so many regrets which is why I’m having such a hard time. I honestly thought everything was good. xxoo
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Edward posted a condolence
Monday, November 16, 2020
Always on my mind, T-Money....
Miss you.
Love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, November 14, 2020
You had a lot of visitors today. If you could see look how much we all love you. We all would of given you whatever you needed. You deserved to be here you were worthy of life. We all needed you as little or as much as we saw you. I knew you were there. That gave me comfort. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, November 14, 2020
Good morning I’m going to try and see you today. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, November 13, 2020
I’m so sorry Tommy. I would of did anything for you. I’m so mad at myself I just want to scream and punch. Why didn’t you call me. I’ll never recover from this EVER. #forever4
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Mom posted a condolence
Friday, November 13, 2020
Please help Dad. He is hurting so bad. He feels he failed you.
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Mom posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 11, 2020
Allison is right. It’s a very bad week. I believe that’s just going to be the norm for me.
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 11, 2020
This is a bad week. So sad still not real to me I keep thinking I will see you and hear you say “hey Allie” I believed in you I wish you believed in yourself xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 10, 2020
Good morning. I’ll never accept you’re gone. In my heart you are here. I’ll keep you alive however I can xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, November 9, 2020
Did you get a kick out of watching us cringe? Miss you. One day closer. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, November 8, 2020
I bought you something today I hope I can get it there soon. I miss you. xxoo #forever4
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Edward posted a condolence
Saturday, November 7, 2020
Mo and I went to visit you today. We left a picture of you and Dean. We hope you like it. We miss you everyday. We love you so much.
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, November 5, 2020
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I hope you’re comfortable I hope your pain is gone
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, November 4, 2020
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, November 2, 2020
You’re sticking with me all day. #onedaycloser
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, October 31, 2020
Sorry to get you up so early he is getting on the ice I can’t go in the rink keep him warm and pull him on sides lol. Xxoo
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, October 31, 2020
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❤️ We miss you, bud.❤️
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Friday, October 30, 2020
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, October 29, 2020
Goodnight. Forever 4. Always here in my heart and I talk about you every day and I won’t stop till the day I die. You will live on. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 27, 2020
Another day and it doesn’t get easier. One day closer till I see you. That’s how I look at it.
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, October 26, 2020
So they win the tournament we know you were screaming at him every time he went off sides. He showed me how you’d be screaming lol. Sean said I know my teammates are proud we won but they don’t know uncle Tommy helped. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, October 24, 2020
Ok so we are 4-0 championship tomorrow do you got him. Put the fire in him. xxoo give me a sign you’re there.
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, October 24, 2020
Good morning. He got player of the game last night. At it again this morning. We are 2-0. Stay with him. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, October 23, 2020
So far so good Tom. He is wearing your hat. We saw and heard your messages. xxoo
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, October 22, 2020
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, October 22, 2020
Big tournament this weekend. Can you give him that fire again? xxoo
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 21, 2020
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Always on my mind...Missing you.
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Mom lit a candle
Monday, October 19, 2020
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Miss you so much everyday. Love you Tommy
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Allison posted a condolence
Monday, October 19, 2020
Barbados the next ten days for you. Watch them. xxoo
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 18, 2020
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Forever 4
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, October 18, 2020
Thank you. You were there the whole time. Xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, October 17, 2020
Good morning. You pulled through with the weather. xxoo thank you. Come dance with us later. I love you.
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, October 16, 2020
I’d walk through fire to bring you back. I miss you I Love you. xxoo
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, October 15, 2020
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The pain is something I’ve never felt. xxoo
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Mom posted a condolence
Thursday, October 15, 2020
Mornings are so hard. I wake up thinking it was all a nightmare.
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 14, 2020
Thanks for the butterfly xxoo hope you like the pumpkin :)
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Allison posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 13, 2020
Tommy I just saw the weather for Saturday. C’mon get on that please. xxoo
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Mom posted a condolence
Monday, October 12, 2020
This is what was said every night. “I love you Tommy”. “I love you too Mom. What I would give to hear that again. How does my broken heart still beat??
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 12, 2020
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Need my best man back...
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Mom posted a condolence
Sunday, October 11, 2020
I can’t even express how I feel. My heart is forever broken.
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, October 10, 2020
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Allison posted a condolence
Saturday, October 10, 2020
Today’s a big day for Sean. First game as a squirt (10U) put that fire in his heart again. Let me know your there. I’ll be looking. xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, October 9, 2020
My day starts with pain and I struggle just to get through.
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Dylan and Carla posted a condolence
Friday, October 9, 2020
Tommy
Friend and neighbor
You will be missed
Rest In Peace
Love, Dylan and Carla
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Karen and Mike posted a condolence
Friday, October 9, 2020
Tommy
We will always remember you as the cute little boy next door who loved
Cheeseburgers
You always had a smile on your face and loved your precious little boy Dean
You will be greatly missed and always loved. Rest In Peace son
With heavy and broken hearts
Kare and Mike
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, October 8, 2020
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How’s Pop doing? Miss you both...
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 7, 2020
Having a really hard time today. I just want to talk to you.
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Eddie uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 5, 2020
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Still doesn’t feel real.
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 5, 2020
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My life will never be the same
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Allison posted a condolence
Sunday, October 4, 2020
Football Sunday! Give me what you know. :) xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Friday, October 2, 2020
2 weeks of the worst pain I’ve ever physically felt. I miss you terribly. Xxoo
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Allison posted a condolence
Thursday, October 1, 2020
Sean talked to Dean tonight. I’ll keep them close. All you had to do was call me Tom. I had your back no matter what.
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Mom uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, October 1, 2020
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Miss you
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Allison posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 30, 2020
Thanks for the fire in his heart tonight. I asked and you heard me. Xx
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Allison uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, September 29, 2020
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Forever 4
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Karen, Michael, Dylan and Carla lit a candle
Friday, September 25, 2020
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So. Sorry for this tremendous loss
We will always remember the cute,funny little boy next door who loved cheeseburgers
God Bless you all
With broken hearts and love,
Karen, Michael, Dylan and Carla
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Karen, Michael, Dylan and Carla lit a candle
Friday, September 25, 2020
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Tommy
Friend, neighbor
Rest In Peace
You will be missed
Dylan and Carla
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Celeste posted a condolence
Thursday, September 24, 2020
Your annoying nagging big sister loves you more then you probably ever thought possible ... please watch over us all .. I know you will but I’m still asking ... hope it’s as beautiful and peaceful up there as I imagine ... until we meet again
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l.sattler123@gmail.com posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 23, 2020
My son played baseball with Thomas and when I heard the tragic news I was heartbroken there’s no words I can say other then he is loved by all and condolences to the family. God bless you .
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Torriebella713@yahoo.com uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
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Today was one of my hardest days ever. How did I just bury my baby brother?? Tommy you meant the world to me. You can tell just by the way I look at you. I would of laid myself on a bed of fire to take away any pain from you all you had to do was ask. I’m not sure why this happened but I’m hoping to be shown a reason. Do me a favor in the meantime hold on tight to your niece Torrie. Tell her all about me and our family. Tell poppy and grandma I miss them. Watch over all of us we are going to need it. Please talk to someone and give us good weather on October 17th. Let the wind blow so we know your there. ❤️ I know I don’t say it much but I love you with every piece of me.
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Danielle Argentino planted a tree in memory of Thomas Valentino
Monday, September 21, 2020
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I pray the love of God enfolds all of you during your journey through grief. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Edward uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, September 19, 2020
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You’ll be in my heart forever. Sleep easy, baby bro. Watch over me and all of us until we’re together again. I LOVE YOU.
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Celeste Valentino Blake posted a condolence
Saturday, September 19, 2020
I love you forever and always and one day we will all be together again ❤️
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The Perlman family planted a tree in memory of Thomas Valentino
Saturday, September 19, 2020
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So very sorry for your loss Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The family of Thomas E. Valentino uploaded a photo
Saturday, September 19, 2020
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