Obituary of Bernice Aspilaire

Bernice Aspilaire (42) was born on January 17, 1981, a precious child of God, went home to be with her Savior on July 20, 2023. Born to Gislaine and the late Ludner Aspilaire at Nyack Hospital. Bernice graduated from Nyack High School and was a baptized Catholic. She was the third of three girls. As a child, Bernice loved horses and spent moments at a Horse Barn. Bernice always inspired to be an Entrepreneur, Fashion Designer, and Content Creator. She started her own online boutique where she sold vintage clothing and loved creating fashion ideas as well as creating content online. Bernice was devoted to creating and always aspiring to work to achieve her goals. Bernice was a daughter, a beloved sister, she doted on her two nieces and nephew. She was the fun aunt who spoiled the youth on their birthdays and holidays. Bernice was predeceased by her father Ludner Aspilaire. She is survived by her mother Gislaine Aspilaire, her two sisters Nadine Aspilaire and Juliette Vineyard, her nephew Braille, and her two nieces Charisma and Parys. She will be missed by many. Memorial Viewing Services will be held at Oelker-Cox & Sinatra Funeral Home on August 3, 2023 at 4:00 – 8:00 pm. Following Mass at Saint Francis of Assisi Church on August 4, 2023 at 10:00 am. In lieu of flowers, the family requests deliveries can be sent to Oelker-Cox & Sinatra Funeral Home. "Don't Cry for Me, For I Still Am" Don't cry for me, for I still am with thee. Whenever you need me, I'll be with you. And together we'll see things through.. Whatever pain plagues your heart, tell it to be gone! For I'm still here to lift your spirits and help you to carry on. Grieve me not, for I am not dead. I passed on eternally, to an everlasting life instead. I am home now... Take heed to what the Lord Jesus said. "My Father's house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? (John 14:2) So, when I say I am in a peaceful place, believe that to be true. God has granted me eternity So, still I exist and I am still with you.. God is not just good. He's the greatest you'll ever know. You may have laid my body to rest, but my soul has plenty of years to go. I'm with the Lord Jesus now, sitting high and watching low. Dont cry for me, for I still am. Your daughter, sister, aunt, cousin and your friend. All that I left behind, I conjure still within. You can feel me, talk to me and love me, until we meet again. Don't cry for me, for I still am. The hands that held you, the voice that soothed you and will be until the very end. So, dont cry for me. For I am not lost I sacrificed being an earth Angel, to make it to heaven at any cost. Don't cry for me, wipe those tears away. Know that each rain fall, will bring a sunny day. And on that day you'll smile and remember me way back when... Don't cry for me, because I still am... Written by Selena D. Holmes