Monday, January 15, 2024
My Dearest Ralphie,
How can I share just one memory when I have had the honor and joy of spending the past 27 years with you my Pal. I have missed you every moment of every day since I last hugged you-just hours before you went to heaven.
You came into my life as a co-worker and left me as my dearest family/friend.
I called you every morning between 5:30-6:00 am just to hear you say 'yeah Lynda I'm okay, don't worry I have it all under control'.
I had no doubt because the Nutrition Program was in your incredible and amazing hands-I only needed to know that you were safe.
Now, when I enter the Greenburgh kitchen each morning it feels lonely and empty. Ralphie you filled that space with your endless strength and energy but more than that it was your care and dedication to all of us that mattered the most.
For me personally you became a special part of my family. Before my daddy passed you guys became friends and he would cut your hair. Then when my mom needed a meal you delivered one to her every day for years. My mom and Rosetta shared a birthday and you always teased that they were cut from the same mold (gabadoust) you would say!
I could never repay you for the joking, laughter and joy you brought my mom each day for those many years. Then there are my brothers who were often there visiting my mom when you arrived-more jokes and foolery-oh how they enjoyed those visits and so did you.
My husband Nicky and my children all know that you are incredible, unique and they hold you in the highest regard.
Ralphie you wrapped yourself around my heart for so many years with so many memories.
You always worried about me-telling me I needed to rest more-I promise you I will try.
I thank you for the many life lessons you have taught me along these many year's and I will carry them with me all the days of my life.
I'm glad that I told you many times that I loved you and I laugh because you would always grunt though I knew that meant you loved me too!
Yes, my dear Ralphie I am crying as I write this.
I love you and I will forever miss you...xoxoxoxoxo
